My F/Os

Kira Nerys

Star Trek: Deep Space 9
Together since 1/18/2021
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Look at her smile! What else can I say?

For anyone unfamiliar with Star Trek, she's a Bajoran (alien species) and follows traditional Bajoran naming conventions. Her family name is Kira, and her given name is Nerys. Her formal title is Major Kira, but I usually call her Nerys. Perks of being her girlfriend :)

I have seen up to season 2, epsiode 3 - no spoilers please!

I have a lot of platonic f/os, so these guys are my main platonic f/os and my secondary platonic f/os are on a separate page

Spock

Star Trek: The Original Series
Childhood best friends
Tag is "thrah t'nash-veh eh thrah t'du"

Nyota Uhura

Star Trek: The Original Series
Classmates to friends
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Natasha Yar

Star Trek: The Next Generation
Superior officer turned friend: Part 1
Tag is "my space sister in arms"
Tag for posts ignoring canon is "canon: i pretend i do not see it"
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Worf, son of Mogh

Star Trek: The Next Generation
Superior officer turned friend: Part 2
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Julian Bashir

Star Trek: Deep Space 9
Cool dude, good vibes
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Secondary Platonic F/Os

Why are there so many of them? Who let them all in here? I don't know. I don't post about these guys as often (if at all) but I do like them very much and I'm always happy to talk about them if you're curious!

The Star Trek Abbreviations, for the unfamiliar:
TOS - The Original Series
TNG - The Next Generation
DS9 - Deep Space 9

NameSourceTag
CallieNothing SpecialTBD ("callie tag tbd")
DeclanNothing SpecialTBD ("declan tag tbd")
RadishNothing Special"you're my favorite salad"
The scooby gangScooby-doo"if it weren't for you meddling kids"
Amanda GraysonStar Trek TOSTBD ("amanda tag tbd")
T'PringStar Trek TOSTBD ("t'pring tag tbd")
Jean-Luc PicardStar Trek TNGTBD ("picard tag tbd")
DataStar Trek TNGTBD ("data tag tbd")
Ro Laren*Star Trek TNGTBD ("ro tag tbd")
???**Star Trek TNG???

*Ro Laren is another Bajoran and follows the same naming rules
**Do not percieve me

Leonard Horatio "Bones" McCoy

Star Trek: The Original Series
Dad
Tag is "my grumpy space dad"

I want to make this abundantly clear: in canon, his banter with Spock definitely had its issues and I don't for a moment condone all the things he said to Spock. In my ship, Bones has not been and continues to not be a space racist.
Also, just to be clear, my familial ship with Bones is distinctly separate from my platonic ship with Spock. The two ships don't exist in the same universe for me, and in my ship with Spock, Bones is just a friend.

Despised Characters

This is an unapologetic hate zone for these characters! Most of them have seriously hurt the characters I care about, so y'know. I'm not a fan.
I do sometimes yell at and about them on this blog, so I have tags you can block if you want:
"it's always a good day to hate (character)"
(Note: Table is in order from most to least hated)

NameSourceReason
Gul DukatStar Trek DS9A lot of murder, helping occupy Bajor
Kai WinnStar Trek DS9Attempted murder, being slimy
LoreStar Trek TNGData and Borg related crimes

Help! We share an f/o!

Because my feelings about sharing are a bit complicated, this gets its own section, so here we go.
To be clear, no matter who we share, you can still interact!
However, I do have complicated feelings about sharing Kira Nerys and Spock. If you self ship with them, I ask that you respect my boundaries around them and I'll try my hardest to respect yours!

If you self ship romantically with Kira Nerys:

  • Please don't gush about her directly to me or tag me in your content with her

  • If you have a ship tag, I will block it, and if you don't or you don't use it consistently I won't follow you

  • Please don't reblog posts about her from me and gush about her in the tags

If you have Nerys as a platonic or familial f/o, I'd love to be friends! That said, if you post untagged Kira x canon content, I probably won't follow you. We can still be friends, I just don't want that on my dash.

If you self ship with Spock in any form:

  • You can still gush/talk about him to me, but it might take me a little longer to respond than normal

  • Our s/is probably can't exist in the same universe if you're close to him, though. We can totally be friends, but our s/is probably can't.

  • Spock and I are very, very close, and while our relationship is strictly platonic some of the boundaries that Spock has with his other friends don't apply to me. If this makes you uncomfortable because of your ship with Spock, I'd be happy to work something out!

  • Please don't come at me for having these boundaries around a platonic f/o. I know he can (and does) have more than one friend, and this is something I'm working on, but until then this is what's going to work best for everyone.